We all like laughing.
The Best Medicine and all that.
In our house it is especially important, considering the number of ways
that I am able to mess up a situation. Just
this evening I thought I would help and ended up destroying the fish fingers we
were going to have for tea. Just the
other day B could be heard to wail, “How many times do you have to be told?” Sadly it was at me rather than the three year
old after I had managed to mess up a relatively simple shopping trip. It has got to the point where one of B and I’s
favourite sayings is, “One day we’ll laugh about this.” Often uttered after I have managed to break
something important, like the tea, or one of the children, or managed to pull a
cupboard door off its hinges, or rendered something entirely useless just by
walking in its general vicinity, also often uttered by me as I try to placate
my distinctly unhappy wife. The time
that really engrained it in our lives though was nothing to do with me. We were on our way down to stay with some
friends in Cornwall and had made it about 4 hours into the journey. At which point our car, which we had
purchased 3 days before decided that enough was enough and just ground to a
halt. Nothing would persuade it to go (turns
out the timing belt had snapped causing a lot of damage and an immobile car) and
in the end we had to wait a good few hours for a tow truck to come and drag us
all the way home. At some point during
that wait one of us uttered the words, “One day we’ll laugh about this,” at
which we both burst out laughing and stayed that way for a good few
minutes. This may have been the result
of the rising hysteria we both felt, but we were both much happier about life
afterwards.